Friday, April 13, 2007 @ 11:25 PM
i was working today at wisma, inside topshop where the paper people counter is placed. kind of drifted off while standing there and pretending not to be bored. i guess i was thinking about quite alot of things because a question came into my mind.
"will i be someone who marry for love or will i be someone who marry because i can talk to the person the whole day without getting bored?"
if i have my way, i would make sure the person i marry is someone i love dearly and also someone i can talk to the whole day without getting bored and running out of topics.
but life doesnt always go the way i want.
if really one day should i get marry, who would i choose if i have this 2 choices? the one i love or the one i can talk to my whole life without getting bored?
love fades over time. people change.
friendship doesnt.
do i want a faded love or a friendship that will let me in time grow to love that person and still be able to talk to him like a friend? bantering and joking through our lives?
but i do know what i want in what i am looking for if i want to settle down.
i want someone:
who loves me,
who cares for me,
who communicates with me,
who think of me everytime,
who accepts me for who i am,
who wont cheat on me either physically or emotionally.
ah.. sounds easy but is it ever possible to find someone like this when i am of a marriageable age? i hope to meet that someone by the age of 24.
considering my social circle is quite small, i guess he will be someone i know for a long time.